обижа́ть

uncommon #5491

verbimperfective perfective is оби́деть

1.
to offend, to hurt, to upset
Он не хоте́л тебя́ обижа́ть.
He didn't mean to hurt you.
Imperfective; perfective is обидеть. Takes a direct object (accusative).
2.
to wrong, to treat unfairly, to bully
Не обижа́й ма́леньких!
Don't bully the little ones!
Often of the strong mistreating the weak.

Examples

Пообеща́й нам, что ты не будешь обижа́ть Тома.
Promise us you won't hurt Tom.
Тебя э́то обижа́ет?
Does it offend you?
Тебя, похоже, сильно обижа́ли в де́тстве.
It looks like they really hurt you as a child.
Не обижа́й её.
Don't hurt her.
Пожалуйста, не обижа́йте Тома.
Please don't hurt Tom.
Его насмешливость обижала многих друзей.
His mocking attitude hurt many of his friends.
Его саркастичность иногда обижала друзей.
His sarcasm sometimes hurt his friends.
Его прямолинейность иногда обижает окружающих людей.
His straightforwardness sometimes offends the people around him.

Imperative
ты	обижа́й
вы	обижа́йте

Active present	обижа́ющий	offending, hurting, insulting, injuring
Active past	обижа́вший	who offended, who insulted, who hurt (feelings)
Passive present	обижа́емый	aggrieved, wronged, offended, hurt
Passive past	-
Gerund present	обижа́я	while doing (present)
Gerund past	обижав обижавши	while doing (past)