обижа́ть

uncommon #5491

verbimperfective perfective is оби́деть

1.
to offend, to hurt, to upset
Он не хоте́л тебя́ обижа́ть.
He didn't mean to hurt you.
Imperfective; perfective is обидеть. Takes a direct object (accusative).
2.
to wrong, to treat unfairly, to bully
Не обижа́й ма́леньких!
Don't bully the little ones!
Often of the strong mistreating the weak.

Examples

Я Тома не обижа́л.
I didn't hurt Tom.
Пожалуйста, не обижа́йте Тома.
Please don't hurt Tom.
Его жёлчные шутки обижают коллег.
His bitter jokes offend his colleagues.
Нико́го не обижа́йте.
Don't hurt anybody.
Тебя, похоже, сильно обижа́ли в де́тстве.
It looks like they really hurt you as a child.
Том никогда не обижа́л Мэри.
Tom never hurt Mary.
Том кого-нибудь обижа́л?
Did Tom hurt anyone?
Том терпе́ть не мо́жет люде́й, кото́рые обижа́ют горноста́ев.
Tom can't stand people who are mean to stoats.

Imperative
ты	обижа́й
вы	обижа́йте

Active present	обижа́ющий	offending, hurting, insulting, injuring
Active past	обижа́вший	who offended, who insulted, who hurt (feelings)
Passive present	обижа́емый	aggrieved, wronged, offended, hurt
Passive past	-
Gerund present	обижа́я	while doing (present)
Gerund past	обижав обижавши	while doing (past)