обижа́ть

uncommon #5491

verbimperfective perfective is оби́деть

1.
to offend, to hurt, to upset
Он не хоте́л тебя́ обижа́ть.
He didn't mean to hurt you.
Imperfective; perfective is обидеть. Takes a direct object (accusative).
2.
to wrong, to treat unfairly, to bully
Не обижа́й ма́леньких!
Don't bully the little ones!
Often of the strong mistreating the weak.

Examples

Нико́го не обижа́йте.
Don't hurt anybody.
Его жёлчные шутки обижают коллег.
His bitter jokes offend his colleagues.
Не давай Тому обижа́ть Мэри.
Don't let Tom hurt Mary.
Не обижа́й меня, пожалуйста.
Please don't hurt me.
Его прямолинейность иногда обижает окружающих людей.
His straightforwardness sometimes offends the people around him.
Такая пренебрежительность к людям многих обижает.
Such contempt for people offends many.
Тебя, похоже, сильно обижа́ли в де́тстве.
It looks like they really hurt you as a child.
Не обижа́й Тома, пожалуйста.
Please don't hurt Tom.

Imperative
ты	обижа́й
вы	обижа́йте

Active present	обижа́ющий	offending, hurting, insulting, injuring
Active past	обижа́вший	who offended, who insulted, who hurt (feelings)
Passive present	обижа́емый	aggrieved, wronged, offended, hurt
Passive past	-
Gerund present	обижа́я	while doing (present)
Gerund past	обижав обижавши	while doing (past)